E-Book Now Available! Sharp Advice For Women! Learn his heart, earn his commitment. The mysteries of how men think. Husband, lover or friend with benefits? Since 1940 women have outnumbered men in the United States and there's no telling what kinds of insecurities men are dealing with these days. It's going to take a little effort from you. I must admit that I have my own trepidations about marriage and commitment. My ears bleed a lot from other people's stories and since I'm constantly under pressure for answers, I decided to do some more formal research (of the subject) and development (of myself). Read on and learn from my discoveries.